Barbie Ferreira, a Sagittarius.
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In the small hours of the morning, Mercury — in the last few days of its retrograde in Sagittarius — and Venus work together to create a lovely, affectionate atmosphere. It’s a good day to socialize, talk through lingering tensions, and let your friends know how much you care about them. It’s probably not the time to dig deep or initiate hard conversations — instead, take the opportunity to simply enjoy yourself.
You aren’t fussy or nit-picky by nature, but once you start noticing people’s annoying quirks, it can be hard to unsee them. Eventually, they may loom so large that you forget about the person’s good qualities entirely. But today, try to zoom out and see the big picture. It’ll be easier to see everybody through a more generous lens today. You’ll have the chance to remember what you like about the people around you and overlook or forgive minor irritations.
It may seem like nobody around you is willing to make tough calls or initiate difficult conversations. You’re growing impatient for somebody to step up — but you’re hesitant, too, afraid it’ll make you unpopular. But in reality, it’s more likely that instead of disapproving of your audacity, others will admire your courage. Instead of questioning your judgment, they’ll be glad someone finally took action. Move with care, but trust yourself. You’re more competent than you give yourself credit for.
With your curiosity and quick mind, you’re good at putting yourself in others’ shoes. You’re interested in their point of view, no matter how great the differences between you. And today, even more than usual, it’ll be rewarding to spend time with people who see the world differently. Maybe their personal experiences give them a unique perspective, or maybe they can teach you new things. Don’t worry so much about whether or not you agree with everything they have to say, just enjoy watching your world getting bigger.
Some people get uncomfortable discussing emotions, but not you. You love deep conversations, and see it as an honor, not a bother, when others open up to you. But every so often, you get sick of talking. It feels like the discussion goes round and round in circles; people keep covering the same ground and telling the same well-rehearsed stories. Today, if you want to get closer to somebody new, find something to do together. Conversation is lovely, but balance it with action.
You’re prideful, and sometimes that leads to conflict with others. You’re unwilling to go along with the crowd if it doesn’t feel right to you; you have far too much courage and integrity for that. Even so, that doesn’t mean you like causing trouble. In your ideal world, everybody would just get along. Today, you have a chance to smooth over some of the disagreements that have been stressing you out lately. Don’t compromise on your values, but trust that there’s a solution that works for everyone.
Sometimes it feels like you can’t broach a sensitive subject without the other person flying off the handle. They get so defensive when you express any negative feelings that you end up wishing you had just kept your mouth shut. Today, though, could be a good day to talk about what’s been bothering you, as others are likely to be a bit more even-keeled than usual. The conversation might still have its share of awkward moments, but you’ll get to a better place by the end.
Today could be one of those days when you seem to run into everyone you’ve ever met, from your closest friends to the acquaintances you haven’t seen in years. The more you get out into your community, the more you’ll be reminded of how rich and varied your social world is. You could have an opportunity to reconnect with someone you miss, but try not to get ahead of yourself. Focus on enjoying the here and now, and don’t worry yet about what will happen in the future.
You’ve learned from experience that it’s not worth having a big conversation every time you experience a flicker of dissatisfaction with someone in your life. There’s no point in stressing everybody out over an unserious issue. Sometimes, though, the small frustrations don’t go away on their own, and the longer they linger beneath the surface, the more off-balance you feel. So if something’s been bothering you, speak up today. You’ll feel happier and more secure in your relationships after talking it out.
If you want truly close relationships, it can feel like all your interactions need to be serious and meaningful, and all of your conversations should plumb new depths. But today, remember that it doesn’t always have to be that deep. Sometimes, the best way to strengthen your social bonds is to chat about each other’s days, to make each other laugh, to sit around doing nothing. The pleasure of simply being in each other’s company can be enough.
When you’re lonely, it’s tempting to go chasing companionship. It hardly matters whether they’re actually right for you; any company seems better than being alone. Today, though, remember how enjoyable it is to spend time with yourself. A bit of alone time might do your heart good, and it can be a relief to answer to nobody but you. And ultimately, the more you relax in solitude, the more others will be drawn to your groundedness and wisdom.
You often feel that you have to tone down your authentic self, particularly when you’re around new people. You worry you’ll come across as odd or intense, and as independent as you are, you still want others to think well of you. Today, though, it’s possible to be your full, unique self and be liked. If you share your thoughts with others — even your more unorthodox ones — you may find that you’re not alone. Most people are weirder than they let on, and if you let your own unique side show, it’ll draw others to you.
It seems like all of your friends are asking for your advice today. They all want your help making big decisions, making sense of complicated relationships, sorting through their tangled emotions. And they’re wise to turn to you — you’re compassionate, your judgment is sound, and you’ll deliver honest insights with kindness. Just remember that you’re more than a witness to other people’s excitement and drama. You’re living your life, too; make sure you’re giving your own experiences with the same care and attention you give others.
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